Tips for the girls

How to attract the guys you want

1. You start the first conversation with the guys you want to date.

It is hard enough to ask the girl on a date.

 Harder still to start the conversation and

 then ask her out on a date. By starting the

 conversation you are encouraging the man

 to ask you. It flows with much greater ease

 because the guy now has a clue, small clue

 but still  a clue, that you have a thing for him

 and that makes the tipping point for men knowing 

that the girl likes him a little.

2. Bring up in conversation places you haven't seen yet and things you one day would like to do.

 If the guy is as clever as you want him to be

 and he is interested in you he will take the

 opportunity to say "Yeah? lets do that some time,

 what time would be best for you?" It open ups

an easy opportunity to get a date without calling

it out as one.

3. After the third time you meet them give them a small hug.

It is good to give a little physical

 contact,  it shows you are comfortable with

 them. when you are comfortable they

 become more so with you, witch leads

 to more meaningful conversations.

 witch leads to a more of a serious relationship.

Doing these three things makes it more simple for the guys you like to ask you out. There is a tipping point for every guy to ask a girl out and giving these three cues brings that tipping point down much lower for the guy to reach. so in a sense you are making it now easer for the guys you like to ask you then for the guys you do not like.