The only way a natural flowing conversation turns into asking a girl out/asking for her number: someone has to start the conversation...the guy, the girl, or the wingman. After the conversation is started, the guy can then more easily see what is the best way to ask out or "find a reason to be around her again." If it is the wingman that starts the conversation, he (or she) needs to at one point leave the conversation so the invite for a date can be more comfortable and easy. More about this in future blogs. Right now I'm testing the workings of the blog.