Can I set you up with my friend?

                Asking someone out on a date is nerve-racking. At times it can be daunting - especially when you are a girl who likes a guy, and he just isn't catching on. Most girls like to keep the traditional dating rules (girls don't ask guys out except for girls' choice dances and things like that). In this post you will learn two ways to ask someone out on a date, how to network among friends to find dates, and how to get the cuties.

                The most common way to ask someone out:

(Guys) you see the girl you like. You walk over to her and say “Hi, I couldn’t help notes you said something or have something in your possession that I have a common interest in. let’s talk about it for five min to an hour. Would you then join me for a cup of coffee sometime and we will talk about other things we have in common?”

(Ladies) You see the guy you like. You walk over to him and say something like “Hi, I’m …. And I want to say welcome to this activity we just happen to be at. I like your outfit where did you get it?.... Yeah, I don’t know if I have heard of it before how did you come across it? That’s cool, Hay, sense you didn’t ask for my number, in the 5 to ten min we have talked, here it is anyway. Call me some time and we can hang out.”

I may be over doing the girls’ side. Most girls don’t just give out there number like that. They don't even take the chance to start the conversation half the time ether. They wait for the guy to make the first move, for the guy to asks for the number. Most of the time they wont come on out and say "will you go out with me?" This is how it has been for years. At times, depending on the type of guy, the girl waiting for the guy may be the best choice. However these days guys are to shy or lazy to take action and that is why there is more then one way to get a date.

                Things that could go wrong. They don’t have any time to talk, you set up a time and a place but you forget to ask for her number. what you need from the girl for a date is: (1) her number (2) a time to meet again (3) a place to meet. Most girls, if they like you won’t let you forget any of the three things you need for a date. If they do forget let’s hope they honestly forgot like you did. The most important of the three is her number, if you forget any other set you can always call her to fix it.

                The blind date is always fun or not so fun.  In case you are new to this phrase “blind date”. This is where someone you know sets you up with someone they know and you go out together. It is called a blind date because You don’t know who this person is. Most people find blind dates scary and hard to work with because you have no idea how the date will turn out. When you know the guy it’s easier because you already have some idea to how he will be when you go out with him.

                Now here is a hybrid of the two. Ask your friends to set you up with their friends of your choosing. The possibilities are endless. If you see someone you like at school or activities you have in common you always have one common friend or your friend has a friend that is a friend to the guy or girl you like. You can say something like “Hay you know that guy over there? Are you friends with him? Sweet can you set me up on a date with him?” This type of dating is what brothers of the bro code do all the time. Ok maybe they don’t do it all the time but it is exemptible. If your friend has a friend that is friends with him you introduce yourself to that friend and walla new friend! As a team you then set up a group date. When you are in a team with people that have the same type of goals anything is possible.  All in all it is always a good idea to make friends with the person you like first before the group date is set up, that way it’s not a blind date for them.